Why do you React?
I want you to answer my question that why do you react on  when someone start making fun of you or try to do something which you don't like?
Look, Someone abused you by saying "Bloody Ass" which you are NOT. but you started folding sleeves "how he called me Ass?". Now you became ass but earlier you were not because you accepted negativity. So now result will be negative like anger,fight etc.
If you don't want to face negative result in future so stop accepting negative or bad things and reacting on that as well. otherwise people will start calling you Ass if you'll react.
you will stop reacting, people  will stop saying.